vendredi 9 août 2013

Some Signs Of Domestic Abuse

By Andrea Davidson


Domestic abuse is a certain pattern of behavior which involves the abuse by one partner to another in an intimate relationship such as marriage, dating or within the family. This may happen to everyone, yet the problem is often overlooked, excused and denied. This is often true especially when it happens to be psychological and not physical.

Nobody should live in fear of the person that they love. Once you have noticed and acknowledged the signs of an abusive relationship, you must take the first step to end it. If you know someone who are showing some signs of it, reach out your help before it is too late.

The best sign of any abuse would be when you start getting afraid of your partners. If you have the feeling of discomfort and insecurity upon living with them, there might be a big problem. It is often characterized by jealousy, intrusion, possession, isolation and over controlling.

A potential batterer has various reasons as well. Jealousy may also be another reason for it. These people often equate jealousy with love. They often control the entire behavior of a victim. They do not want to see them spending some time with others. They might even ask some friends to watch over the victim when he or she gets out.

Cheating or being disloyal is often accused to a victim. They often mandate their partners to stop all relationships with her or his female or male friends. They can even show up in the workplace of the certain victim. Suspicion has been the reason for it. Each person deserves to be loved, respected, trusted and treated as special rather than dealing with such people who will tend to take over their lives and their privacy.

If you have noticed that these people are threatening you and all the people that you love, you should leave before the entire situation would worsen. They might begin with a few screaming and shouting and will later on escalate to some forms of life threatening acts. They could start to threaten themselves also because they want to use care as a weapon.

If your partner wants you to be isolated from the outside world, there might be another problem. They often tell you that they do not want certain people in your life. They often control you on the places you are going and about what you are doing. No matter how long is the entire problem, you must always reach out for help and find a support that you can lean on.

They might as well stalk you to places that you wish to go. It may be flattering that someone adores you, but not to the point of being stalked. The experience is much terrifying. You will definitely live in fear for all your life. Always remember that stalking is a crime. Report these people immediately.

Domestic abuse could lead to other major physical injuries like cutting, burning and biting. No one must be deprived to live life freely. If you think that your partner is abusive, you will never have freedom. Learn to stand up and speak your heart out. In case that there are matters that you want to discuss with your partner, do it calmly.


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